Why Should I Lose Weight?

 We all lose weight for different reasons. Some lose weight for health reasons, your doctor is pushing you. Maybe like me your spouse is pushing you. Maybe you feel funny at work because your co-workers stare, talk behind your back. Or maybe you just want to wear the same clothes others wear.

I lost weight because I became out of shape, out of breath when I was working outside, in the garage or mowing the lawn or just vacuuming carpet in the house. My clothes didn’t fit I had to buy pants with a 38 inch waist, and then finally I said “stop”.     I have to stop this insane way of over indulging. That’s exactly what was happening. I was in my 30’s and owned a restaurant that was doing well. Success was going to my head, and all I thought about was the business and shopping for things I wanted but couldn’t afford before.

My wife was power walking everyday and wanted me to join her, but I always had an excuse. I stayed at the restaurant about 14 hours a day. I’d take some Sunday’s off, when I’d spend time with the kids or relatives; maybe walk thru the mall and do some shopping. My wife was the one that pushed me into exercising. We joined a local health club with all the equipment, pool, steam, sauna, track and aerobics classes. My wife probably made more use of the gym than I did. She did get me interested in Racquetball. We played about 4 times a week and then slowly I got more interested in the other things in the health club. The club opened at 6 a.m. so we could go before work.

Even after several months of this routine of 30 minutes of racquetball and then using hand weights for another 20 minutes, I hadn’t lost much weight. By this time I had sold the restaurant and had bought a different business that didn’t involve food. I worked less hours and had more time for the gym but I still battled the weight problem. I had lost about 20 pounds over the past couple of years but was still way to heavy.  My wife wanted me to change my diet, eat less, eat more greens and less meat. Reluctantly I was changing but with little results. Now that I think back I was still rewarding myself. Drinking many high calorie drinks during the day. I wasn’t counting calories and I didn’t think about snacking.

Now I know that snacking and store bought drinks can add 1000’s of calories a day. I was only counting the food at meals and thought I was doing good, and that’s what happens when your not serious about losing weight.

I remember my mother smoked a few cigarettes a day, and even after her and my father had quit, when she was at work she was smoking. When she was around smokers then she would smoke. The same thing happens to over eaters. When they are around others who over eat, for example, a man or women who is doing fine at home following their diet, but at work their tempted with the snacks in the lunch room and the sodas they keep in the frig. When everyone else does it, then you thing that a little bite isn’t going to hurt.

You get home after work and eat a meal with the family and all that food is a temptation and you consume too many calories; then we all do this; at night we pull out the snacks, now your over your calorie count for the day and your not active enough at night to burn those calories and you gain weight.

There are people and I was one that had been over eating most of their lives, and when I was young I burned all those calories, but with age comes a slower metabolism. You just don’t burn as many calories a day as you use to. That’s when most of us start to gain weight because we are still eating the same amount.

If you want to feel healthier, feel like you did when you were in your prime, you want to get back to the weight you were when you got out of school. Usually that’s when people are the healthiest. They’re not taking any prescriptions, they’re at their normal body weight. They don’t have the opportunity to snack all day when their in school and they get exercise.  Most people remember school years as some of the happiest times of their lives. I guess I remember those years as a time when I was in my best physical condition.

Now I thing I’ve returned to that time. I lost 50 pounds since those restaurant years, I weigh the same as I did in high school but I have lost some muscle and strength which is natural so I still watch my calories, but not as close. I’ve keep the weight off for a few years now and I don’t want any of it back. I hate this phrase but I’m going to use it, ” I feel great for my age”, I feel like I’m 40 again and I don’t ever want to go back to feeling tired and bloated.

I know for me the whole secret to feeling better and looking better was to lose the weight. I don’t have to take any prescription drugs I can eat anything in moderation, but I know about 1800 calories is my daily limit. When I go over, I’ll gain weight. But there are more reasons for losing weight, serious reasons.

Obesity still looms large in the United States but the scale’s relentless climb may have leveled off, according to the latest results of a U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention study, one-third of adults and 17 percent of children and teens are obese, said CDC researchers who focused on more than 9,000 adults and children in 2011-2012 and compared them to five previous obesity analyses dating back to 2003-04.”We found overall that there was no change in youth or adults,” said study author and epidemiologist Cynthia Ogden. But within specific age groups, weight shifts were apparent. More older women are obese, but very young children seem to be slimming down.

One specialist in childhood obesity was pleased with the overall findings. “I tend to be an optimist. The fact that we are seeing a leveling off is actually a good thing,” said Dr. Sara Lappe, a pediatrician at Cleveland Clinic Children’s who specializes in childhood obesity. Obesity in adults is defined as a body mass index (BMI) of 30 or above. BMI is a calculation of body fat based on height and weight. A 5-foot 9-inch adult who weighs 203 pounds has a BMI of 30 and is considered obese, for example. Obesity in kids is defined as a child who has a BMI at or above the 95th percentile for children of the same age and sex. Ogden said the results for preschool-age children are a bright spot in the findings. “We found among preschoolers, 2- to 5-year-olds, there was a significant decrease in obesity,” Ogden said. Prevalence of obesity in children that age dipped from 14 percent in 2003-2004 to about 8 percent in 2011-2012, she noted.

Cleveland Clinic’s Lappe said: “I think this piece of the study is actually good. There are a lot of early intervention programs in Head Start and preschools, and education directly to parents that may be starting to pay off. “Hopefully,” Lappe added, “as they [the children] get older, we’ll see the numbers come down. “The authors of the study, published in the Feb. 26 issue of the Journal of the American Medical Association, report that many preventive health programs and efforts have been launched by the government in recent years to combat the obesity epidemic in the United States. These include new food labeling measures by the U.S. Department of Agriculture, as well as state and community programs sponsored by the CDC, and First Lady Michelle Obama’s Let’s Move program. Even so, the overall numbers haven’t inched down. In fact, obesity prevalence ticked up in women 60 and older, from less than 32 percent in 2003-2004 to more than 38 percent in 2011-2012.

Overall, more than two-thirds of adults are either overweight or obese, and more than 6 percent are extremely obese. There hasn’t been a big impact on prevalence in the last eight years, but at least there’s a leveling off, said obesity expert Dr. William Yancy, an associate professor of medicine at Duke University Medical Center in Durham, N.C.” There are a bunch of competing factors that make it hard for people to manage their weight,” Yancy said. “Genetics are involved, chemicals in foods and the environment may be involved. Clearly, the food environment stimulates us to eat more and more higher-calorie foods, and our environment also encourages us not to be active.” Those factors make it “really difficult” to maintain a healthy weight, he said. “I liken it to how difficult it is to get people to stop smoking,” said Yancy. As with smoking, he said, it may take bigger policy changes to bring prevalence down, such as taxes and restrictions, but it’s a complicated matter. “People have to eat but they don’t have to smoke, and there’s a lot of controversy about what’s a healthy food and what’s not,” Yancy said. Ogden agreed there’s no simple solution. “Obesity is obviously a multifactorial problem. It’s very complex,” he said, adding that surveillance of obesity in the United States will continue.

The word “Obesity” is used a lot today and to put that in easier terms to understand, when your BMI goes over 30, your obese. “O.K., and why is that important?” Because that’s the point when the amount of body fat reaches 30% of your body mass. And that’s important because science believes that at this point your body is spending too much of your available energy trying to maintain your fat. Stored body fat is totally non-productive. It does nothing to make your body work, yet your body has to use it’s energy to keep stored fat alive. Some stored fat is necessary but your BMI should be below 15. A number of medical problems can be contributed to being overweight and I’m sure you’ve heard them all, and it’s all true, but the only one you need to remember is that being overweight shortens your life.

You decide for yourself, “How bad do you want to lose weight?

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